Hands up who uses text messages? Most people do these days. Its one of the top ways to communicate in modern times. It's convenient, its fast and can be used for any occasion. So why not use it to enhance your relationship? Send a love message!
One of the common things you hear is people reminiscing back to the beginning of a relationship when everything was fun and exciting. Often we get stuck in "real life", where romance takes a back seat and other things become more of a priority. Relationships need to have input, they need to be looked after as well as the people involved in it. Feeling valued, wanted and appreciated in your relationship is a winning formula!
Men are really wired to please women. Your man wants to please you, he wants to make you happy but most women don't know what to do after the honeymoon phase of the relationship is over. A lot of women just accept that this is how relationships are when two people have been together for some time. But this isn't true. And all of the ideas you read in magazines about him not being romantic isn't necessarily true either.
In order to turn your relationship around, you have to get him from feeling distant and frustrated to motivated. This could mean the difference between your relationship fizzling or it being hotter than ever.Your boyfriend or husband has an inner switch that you may not have known about and if you are able to push this inner switch, you can get him to be romantic at command. One of the ways you trigger this switch is through curiosity. You can send him a text message that will get his attention fast. This doesn't necessarily mean you're going to be sexting him.
Yes, you can text the romance back by knowing how to create intense attraction with your man.Most women do not understand the power of using text messages to get their men to become more romantic. If you have been trying to talk your man into taking you out more, doing more things for you or spending more time listening to your needs, you have to stop for a moment and consider how much love you can be experiencing right now if you know how to send him the right messages.
Make a wrong text move and his feelings will fizzle, but give him just enough to stir him up and before long, he'll be on his knees waiting for the next time.There is a way to get him to give you the attention you want, you can't just send him a sexy message and expect that is going to do it. You have to know exactly how to go about keeping the momentum going so that it can spark the right feelings inside of him.You have to use your power as a woman and stop feeling like you're powerless. This is exactly what's causing you to come off as begging your man to give you attention. He sees desperation. Stop begging and start texting.You have to understand how to push his romantic buttons. Men are motivated differently than women are. Telling him you miss him will not get him to stand up and pay attention. Paint a picture in his mind and create the mood and you will see him stand up and pay attention.
You can also utilize texting for a more specific purpose. For example, you might set up a romantic scavenger hunt at home or at your partner's place or work. Send directions for the items through text over the course of the day. You don't even need to conceal something. You could just have your partner look for an image of you as a couple or other items that provide enjoyable memories of your relationship over the years.The words that you send in a text message don't also have to be your own. If you hear a lyric in a song, read a quote from a poem or catch a sentiment on the big screen, why not send it to your partner? When you wish to be original, you can always remind your partner of an intimate moments, even if it's just to state "Remember our encounter last night?"
Curiosity is your best tool to create intrigue. Once the ball is rolling, don't answer his questions directly but pretend that you don't really understand what he's saying in a playful manner. Make him have to work a little to know where you're leading him.Don't ever bother to apologise to your man if you're giving him a mental challenge and he gets upset. Forget it. The more he has to think, the better it is for you. If he replied that he didn't understand what you mean, just roll with it or you'll kill the attraction.
One of the common things you hear is people reminiscing back to the beginning of a relationship when everything was fun and exciting. Often we get stuck in "real life", where romance takes a back seat and other things become more of a priority. Relationships need to have input, they need to be looked after as well as the people involved in it. Feeling valued, wanted and appreciated in your relationship is a winning formula!
Men are really wired to please women. Your man wants to please you, he wants to make you happy but most women don't know what to do after the honeymoon phase of the relationship is over. A lot of women just accept that this is how relationships are when two people have been together for some time. But this isn't true. And all of the ideas you read in magazines about him not being romantic isn't necessarily true either.
In order to turn your relationship around, you have to get him from feeling distant and frustrated to motivated. This could mean the difference between your relationship fizzling or it being hotter than ever.Your boyfriend or husband has an inner switch that you may not have known about and if you are able to push this inner switch, you can get him to be romantic at command. One of the ways you trigger this switch is through curiosity. You can send him a text message that will get his attention fast. This doesn't necessarily mean you're going to be sexting him.
Yes, you can text the romance back by knowing how to create intense attraction with your man.Most women do not understand the power of using text messages to get their men to become more romantic. If you have been trying to talk your man into taking you out more, doing more things for you or spending more time listening to your needs, you have to stop for a moment and consider how much love you can be experiencing right now if you know how to send him the right messages.
Make a wrong text move and his feelings will fizzle, but give him just enough to stir him up and before long, he'll be on his knees waiting for the next time.There is a way to get him to give you the attention you want, you can't just send him a sexy message and expect that is going to do it. You have to know exactly how to go about keeping the momentum going so that it can spark the right feelings inside of him.You have to use your power as a woman and stop feeling like you're powerless. This is exactly what's causing you to come off as begging your man to give you attention. He sees desperation. Stop begging and start texting.You have to understand how to push his romantic buttons. Men are motivated differently than women are. Telling him you miss him will not get him to stand up and pay attention. Paint a picture in his mind and create the mood and you will see him stand up and pay attention.
You can also utilize texting for a more specific purpose. For example, you might set up a romantic scavenger hunt at home or at your partner's place or work. Send directions for the items through text over the course of the day. You don't even need to conceal something. You could just have your partner look for an image of you as a couple or other items that provide enjoyable memories of your relationship over the years.The words that you send in a text message don't also have to be your own. If you hear a lyric in a song, read a quote from a poem or catch a sentiment on the big screen, why not send it to your partner? When you wish to be original, you can always remind your partner of an intimate moments, even if it's just to state "Remember our encounter last night?"
Curiosity is your best tool to create intrigue. Once the ball is rolling, don't answer his questions directly but pretend that you don't really understand what he's saying in a playful manner. Make him have to work a little to know where you're leading him.Don't ever bother to apologise to your man if you're giving him a mental challenge and he gets upset. Forget it. The more he has to think, the better it is for you. If he replied that he didn't understand what you mean, just roll with it or you'll kill the attraction.
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