Beatingdepression is much more about changing mindsets than changing behaviors.
By changing your mindset first, all kinds of behaviors in your life will naturally
change.
Here
are three different mindsets you can try on to help defeat depression.
The People Mindset
How
happy you are in large part depends on the people who surround you.
Are
you surrounded by people who're supportive or criticizing? Do you feel loved
and accepted by your social circle? Do you feel respected, or do you feel
looked down upon?
Studies
show that social relationships have more to do with happiness than money,
health or any other factor.
If
you want to overcome depression, a great place to start is your social circle.
If you don't have supportive friends or family, start by changing up how you
spend time. Go to different events and hang out in different places to meet new
people.
The Chemical Imbalance Mindset
What's
great about the chemical mindset is that it takes the blame away from you.
Instead of thinking "there's something wrong with me," the mindset
turns into "my brain has a chemical imbalance; it happens to a lot of
people."
And
in reality, that's very often the case. Depression is often caused not by
external factors, but by chemical imbalances in the brain. This is especially
common during the teenage years.
There
are two solutions in this framework: Medication, or just wait it out.
For
mild depression, working on improving your lifestyle may be a better solution
than taking medication. Anti-depression and SSRI medications have both
psychological and physical side effects.
For
serious depression however, taking medications is often the only real way to
get through life in a bearable way. If that's the case, the most important
thing to keep in mind is that it's just a chemical imbalance - It doesn't say
anything about who you are.
The Life Building Perspective
Finally,
a very useful perspective is the life building perspective.
Instead
of treating depression as a chemical imbalance, you can just treat it as a lack
of life excitement. Instead of taking the medication route, you can try to
improve your life as much as possible instead.
Start
by taking on a hobby or two. New hobbies allow you to grow and have fun, while
also meeting new people.
Try
improving your health. Many studies have shown that even a small amount of
exercise can result in a vast improvement in mental and emotional health.
Come
up with a few life goals you'd like to tackle. Make it a point to try and achieve
one goal you'd feel proud of every single month.
Make
building an exciting and inspiring life an active project rather than a passive
one. Just the act of taking control of your life can help give you a sense of
empowerment and joy.
These
are three different mindsets you can take on to help defeat depression.
Depression is usually both a mental condition and a physiological condition.
Some of these mindsets work better for mild depression, while others work
better for heavy, chemical-imbalance types of depression.
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